About Robin

I am pleased that my sweet friend Heather asked me to contribute here. One of my main goals in life is sharing my hard learned lessons with other homeschool moms. I pray I can be a blessing here at the Homeschool Post.

My passions include God, family, Bible study, homeschool, Hebrew roots, whole foods and animals.

I’ll tell you a little about each of my passions and then share highlights of our homeschool journey.

Relationship with God

I was on a performance treadmill much of my life trying to earn God’s love in religious institutions. I wore the Sunday masks that everything was OK and jumped through the appropriate hoops hoping that being a submissive wife and diligent, over protective mother would give me happy marriage and perfect children. It didn’t.

I tried to control our family with my lists of Christian rules. Church attendance and Bible studies were duties. I sincerely thought I was on the right path but my artificial rules and regulations sucked the love of God out of our family.

I’m on a different path now–relationship instead of religion. I know God loves me where I am and I desire for him to lead every step of my day. Much of my time with my adult children is spent discussing how things could have been and how grateful I can teach them the truth now.

God took me on this journey to learn of Him and everything I have been through has brought me in a deeper, closer walk. You can read more about my story at Masked to TrueFaced

Our Family

Ronnie and I have a large family 11 children and 14 grandchildren (so far). Yes, they are all ours. It is a yours, mine and ours family. I gave birth to 9 children and have 2 step children, but they are all our children. I love each dearly and am so grateful for each unique (sometimes strange) blessings.

I had my first at 17 and youngest when I was 46 (you know you’re old when you need reading glasses to read the pregnancy test).

My oldest daughter is 36 and youngest son is 9. I love, love, love having my adult children as my best friends! I was recently asked if we were in the Guinness Book of World Records for having children almost 30 years apart in age.

Our Homeschool and Bible Study

I’m currently homeschooling my two youngest boys at home using an Heart of Wisdom approach. It is a combination of teaching methods putting the Bible first, utilizing the Charlotte Mason’s philosophy; 4 Step Lessons; Ruth Beechick’s language arts teaching methods; the integrated unit study method, the Lifestyle of Learning approach.

Bottom line: I am somewhat structured but very flexible seeking what God wants me to teach my children (instead of the state). We read a lot, write a lot make Bible the focus of each school day and enjoy creating lapbooks and crafty projects.

Hebrew Roots

I have been a Zionist since my teens when Grandmother introduced me to books by Corrie Ten Boom and Richard Wumbrand. I have a passion for the Jewish people and our Hebrew roots.

When we began homeschooling, we built a model of the Tabernacle and I was amazed at the symbolism. It lead me to the Hebrew roots of Christianity and writing A Family Guide to the Biblical Holidays You can read more at my Biblical Hollidays Blog.

Nutrition & Whole Foods

Nutrition is my newest passion. I attempt to eat 80% whole raw foods daily. I drink a minimum quart of Green Smoothie daily (delicious way to get in five severing of fruits and veggies).

I’ve had a several health issues in the last five years beginning with open heart surgery then entering into the horrible medical system. The medications almost killed me several times. Prescriptions from doctors guessing resulted in 12 blood transfusions and several life saving ambulance trips to the hospital.

Praise God I am off medical roller coaster (stopped eight serous medications). I found doctors are great for accidents but almost useless for illness.

I’m getting healthy by eating God’s food instead of man’s substitutes. You can read nutrition post and Green Smoothie recipes at the Green Smoothies Group.

Homeschool Business

We began homeschooling over 20 years ago. I started a homeschool business to help teach my children about business (and to get books at a discount). It worked. All my grown children are entrepreneurial. Two run omeschool businesses:

My oldest daughter, Belinda, runs a Family Christian Academy, a satellite school homeschool families where I teach Bible (with lapbooks!).

My second daughter, Rebecca and family run a homeschool business providing Well Planned Day Planners and Family Educator Magazine.

I write about my passions. My books include:

Animals

We live on a mini farm with 20 acres miniature horses and miniature goats. Our animals are my tranquilizers. As I write my two Shichons are at my feet. If I need more love I go a few steps outside to watch our horses, Great Pyrenees and the kid goats playing. They fill my empty baby nests. See more at my Heart at Home Blog.

Our Homeschool Journey

Our home school journey began with a desire to teach our children God’s word and the necessary academics to prepare them for life.

At the time we had four school age children and a toddler. I prayed, set up a schoolroom, chose a curriculum, planned a schedule. We were well prepared to go forth on our journey.

Our classroom was equipped with bookshelves, a child size desk for each student, a miniature desk for the toddler, a teacher’s desk, textbooks, pencils, papers, notebooks, and complete with an American flag. Each child had a separate Bible, history, science, math, spelling, and English workbook.

School rules were enforced the children were not allowed to talk to each other or me unless they raised their hand. We were “doing school.”

Obstacles and Pot Holes

The journey progressed as planned except for one unexpected obstacle. I, leader of the expedition, was exhausted. I spent each evening planning six subjects for four grade levels.

I spent so much time planning school that I did not have time to interact with my children. School became little more than a sticky note on the outside of a textbook or workbook telling each student what pages to accomplish for the day.

During the day, I sat at my desk, graded papers and spent countless hours writing scores in miniature boxes in a teacher’s lesson plan book and if I had time answered questions about school work. We were “doing school.”

When a mother becomes exhausted, she begins to see things in a different light. Little things become huge, she becomes irritable. A child’s normal amount of time to learn a fraction concept can become distorted. A few misspelled words seem life threatening. Suddenly, it appears that the children have no intelligence and will never be able to comprehend very simple concepts. When some of my children’s papers reflected a lack of comprehension, I panicked. We spent more time in problem areas and increased the amount of school time.

I was determined we were going to “do school.”

Taking a Detour

I realized it was time for a detour. I was so busy planning, I wasn’t teaching. I redid our schedule, changed from a text book approach to a unit study. This allowed me to teach all Bible, history and science, to all the children at the same time. I worked separately with them on math and language arts.

My planning and grading time was drastically cut. The children and I interacted, we read aloud together, worked on projects, and they were really learning. I thought I had found the answer. The children were doing well academically. Our school day was much more interesting and we all looked forward to school. We were home schooling instead of “doing school.”

To be sure I was meeting state requirements, I spend a vast amount of time studying state standards and achievement tests. This work resulted in my first published book, What Your Child Needs to Know When.

Finding an Alternate Route

I’m not quite sure when it hit me, but it hit, and it hit hard. The children were learning academics but somewhere along the line, probably when I wasn’t seeing things in proportion, I replaced Bible time with math, spelling, or history.

A quick evaluation of our school time showed a lack of Bible study. Our curriculum was Christian and we read an occasional Bible verse but we were not spending time in God’s Word. I wasn’t even starting the day praying anymore. We had changed to a better road but somewhere we changed destinations.

I wasn’t the only homeschool parent on the wrong path. The same same attitude prevailed at home school conferences. As I spoke to new and veteran homeschoolers., the most frequently asked question was “How do I know if I am doing enough”. As a result, of all those worries, What Your Child Needs to Know When. rapidly became a bestseller in the homeschool community. This bothered me. Everyone, including myself, was anxious about state standards and bypassing the destination.

What Your  Child Needs to Know When It was time to inspect the map to see exactly where we were headed. I believe this happens to most homeschoolers. Either the destination is chosen poorly in the beginning or somewhere along the line, the intentions to teach children what God commands us to teach our children changes to teaching what the state or “world” requires. This happens simply because parents were taught that school equals academics.

God’s Word, our map, is alive. It can quickly reveal a wrong chosen path and put it on course.

One Needful Thing

In the Bible story of Mary and Martha, Martha was so busy with preparations as Mary sat at the feet of Christ. When Martha complained about Mary, Jesus answered and said unto her, “Martha, Martha, thou art careful and troubled about many things: But one thing is needful: and Mary hath chosen that good part, which shall not be taken away from her.” (Luke 10:40-42.)

The lesson is simple: only one thing is necessary. Everything else that does not promote that one thing is extra. The most important thing we can ever teach our children is to sit at Jesus’ feet and hear His word. Sensible Martha had many accomplishments, but worry and trouble were her rewards. Mary, on the other hand, was praised for choosing “that good thing” which was itself her reward and which would not be taken away from her.

Martha’s preparation work was not wrong; in fact, it was important. It was Martha’s focus that was wrong. It is your focus that makes the difference. Socialistic achievement, which the world stresses so much, is important, but it is nothing without Christ.

Academics (math, language arts, history, and science) matter, but only as they sharpen your focus on the Kingdom of God and His righteousness. The academic subjects are important tools, but only tools to help in the journey not the destination or goal.

The moment academics redirect you, cloud your view, to whatever degree they slow your pursuit, they then move from helpful tools to what Jesus calls the “cares of this life.”

Another Change in Course

I purposed to accomplish the “one needful thing” daily by committing to reading the Bible before any academic schoolwork. True wisdom is only available by spending a significant amount of your home school time studying and teaching God’s Word.

I rewrote What Your Child needs to Know When. adding about 200 pages comparing and changing the focus from what the state requires to what God requires us to teach our children. The academics are important (and check lists remain in the book) but the focus in on God’s Word..

For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any two edged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart” (Hebrews 4:12).

I set aside strivings and anxieties and purposed to teach my children who Christ is. We began to spend time sitting at His feet and feast at the table of His mercy, forgiveness, and peace. We began to learn the unseen things of God. We began to learn true wisdom.

The Journey Continues
…Our Destination: A Heart of Wisdom

Many, many changes have occurred over my 20 years of homeschooling. The teaching methods and approaches have changed but mt he biggest change has been in me, the teacher. I made a lot of mistakes and learned a lot. Hopefully sharing some of my mistakes will help others.

If you purpose to put Bible before other studies you can’t go wrong. Through the years this included different daily devotions, Bible study curriculum, focusing on one particular book of the Bible, reading a certain amount of chapters per day, or by reading Bible stories.

Honestly, I must say that at times it has been a struggle. It’s very easy to slip back into “doing school,” but each time I slipped, God gently reminded me of the one needful thing and we would get back on track.

The Heart of Wisdom Approach

adamAfter a dozen years of examining different teaching philosophies, learning styles–and most importantly–what God’s word says about teaching children, I designed an approach of teaching based on much prayer and my experience above.

I call it the Heart of Wisdom approach from Psalms 90:12, Teach us to number our days aright, that we may gain a heart of wisdom. Not only must we renew our thinking about the context of what is taught but also the method of which is taught (Joshua 24:23, Proverbs 3:5-6; Matt 6:19-21; Romans 12:22). The Heart of Wisdom centers all teaching on God’s Word.

You can download excerpts from my books here.

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